My children and I embarked on a journey the other day. We put on appropriate attire, and entered the garage. There we adorned plastic headgear and strapped them down. We secured the air pump and checked and filled all rubber tubes to capacity, adjusted the seating apparatus, checked for proper leg extension and mounted our seven and twenty-one gear, brightly colored bicycles.
Yes, we were going for a bicycle ride. Or should I say an adventure. As we left the safety and security of the cul-de-sac we entered into a world of winding trails, low hanging tree limbs, close encounters with near by streams, and mountainous hills. We traversed gaping sidewalk crevices, sticker lined narrow bike trails, and busy intersections. But not to fear…Dad was in the lead.
I had led expeditions like this before but it had literally been decades ago with my now adult sons who have no doubt led expeditions of their own. But this was different…this time I had three adventurers following closely in my path. Their safety was in my hands. Their expectations depended upon my leadership. And their desire to go again rested in my ability not only to lead but also to inspire.
As we engaged the path I was there to warn of approaching danger, to help them avoid obstacles, to point out interesting objects and upcoming landmarks, and to keep the pace swift enough to keep their attention but not too swift as to discourage their desire to continue on.
I’ll bet you did not know that a simple bike ride was so exciting. But it must have worked because the following day all three children were preparing for another ride. Only this time they wanted to lead. And led they did. “Watch out for the tree Dad.” “There is a stream up ahead Dad, don’t go too fast.” “Stay on the path Dad, there are stickers up ahead.” “Do you want to stop for a rest Dad?” “Are you thirsty yet, Dad?” And my favorite, “There are some trees up ahead Dad if you need to…” They did not forget a thing.
With Father’s Day approaching it reminded me once again of not only the responsibility we have as fathers but also the opportunities. When they suggested we go on the ride, I must admit my first thought was for myself. I knew I needed the exercise because sitting around the house and eating double stuffed Oreos was starting to show its effects. In those two short rides I had the opportunity to lead and be led, to answer questions about flowers and clouds and dogs and fish. I showed my mechanical ability by fixing my daughter’s derailed bicycle chain. We even talked a little about God’s creation. But most of all they had my undivided attention. The only thing I thought about on the ride was them; their safety, and their enjoyment.
We have a heavenly father who also wants to spend time with us also. He too wants to lead us down the right path, through the obstacles of life, and then watch us lead others. In John 8:12 Jesus said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” Paul, the apostle, told those who were watching him, “Follow my example as I follow the example of Christ.” So, we have the responsibility to not only follow Christ but to lead others to Him as well.
Two things I will change before the next adventure…I am getting a larger and softer seat, and I will not air up my tires as much. You would think with all the Oreos that my rear would have more padding.